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I'm a Woman Who's Sleeping With a Gay Man (Yes, He's Still Gay)
For the past year, I’ve been having regular sex with a gay bloke I'll call Oliver. We were foremost friends for years, attending many Identity parades and taking weekend hiking trips. But last year, after a very drunken night, we slept together—and we still are today. He maintains that he still is, and always has been, a homosexual man.
After the first time, we were predictably awkward and British about it. We laughed a bit that it had happened, and then we agreed we shouldn’t accomplish it again.
That lasted maybe three days. The first not many months had all the expected thrilling parts of sleeping with your optimal bud, but they were also tinged with this logo new fresh thing. Oliver had never been with a woman before, and he was completely unaware of what a vulva or a clitoris was. Fortunately, Oliver had the benefit of my feminist Orgasm Gap rants over the past five years, and took to the task of making me come with admirable tenacity. One of the sweetest moments of that year was finding the book She Comes First on his bedside table.
Men I’ve slept with before often have this false bravado around sex, like they need
Re: i'm a female & i'm (sexually) attracted to male lover guys
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Got it, so it does sound enjoy a big part of this simply has to accomplish with a certain type of guy (but not the only type of guy) you spot attractive.
When you want to be a guy in those moments, what is it, specifically, that you want? Is it to be proficient to engage in certain things sexually? To have a certain role in a sexual dynamic? Something else? And when you utter this happens when you see pretty gay guys in your surroundings, are those guys who you know are gay, or who look a certain way?
With fetishizing or objectifying people, that depends on whether you spot these guys as individual, unique humans or more as a blank slate that you can project your desires onto. It's also sound to consider about what's attracting you to them and how much of it might be based on stereotypes about that specific group (it might be the case that none of it is) rather than the realities of that individual person.
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Sexplain It Live: I’m a Lgbtq+ Man Who Wants to Possess Sex With a Woman
I’m a 48-year-old man who’s identified as gay since I was 25 and has never had sex with a woman. But now, I’m beginning to realize that I’m bisexual. Bisexuality really wasn’t a thing 30
It’s offensively wrong to sketch an entire community with one brush.