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'Biggest loser' trainer Bob Harper comes out

On the Nov. 26 episode of the NBC show The Biggest Loser, personal trainer Bob Harper, 48, came out as a queer man.

Contestant Bobby Saleem revealed that he was gay on the reveal, but struggled to crack the news of his sexuality to his father. To help encourage Saleem to come out to his dad, Harper decided to share his have story. At one aim Harper said, “Being lgbtq+ doesn’t mean that you are less than anybody else. It’s just who you are.”

Harper stated on the show: “I haven’t talked about my sexuality on this show ever. And now, meeting Bobby, I really do assume this is the right time. I want to show Bobby that he doesn’t have to exist in shame.”

Jillian Michaels, who was an original trainer on Biggest Loser and has come back on the show periodically, is bisexual and raising two children with her match Heidi Rhoades.

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When you're on a reality television reveal, you're typically in the spotlight. But for "Biggest Loser" trainer Bob Harper, he was never the big storyline. Instead, as he tells "Oprah: Where Are They Now?" in the above clip, he was the support behind the contestants -- they were the real focus.

"Doing my job on 'Loser,' it always had to be about them," Harper says. "It was never about me."

...Until it was.

In 2013, Harper's sexuality became a part of the larger conversation on "Biggest Loser" when he publicly revealed he was queer during one of the episodes. The reason why Harper chose that moment to come out, he says, wasn't necessarily for himself. It was to help someone else.

"I had a contestant that was homosexual, that was just struggling with his whole identity and his self-worth," Harper says. "I didn't want him to feel so ill about himself."

That contestant was Bobby Saleem, and he was having a firm time with the idea of coming out to his family. Though Harper's personal life hadn't been highlighted on the show before, he sensed that opening up was another way to support his trainee.

"I thought that ... relating to him and coming out and talking about my sexuali

The Biggest Loser’s Bob Harper Is Engaged to Longtime Crush Anton Gutierrez

Ending Self-acceptance Month with a bang! The Biggest Loser alum Bob Harper and longtime boyfriend Anton Gutierrez are engaged.

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“Well this happened yesterday,” the personal trainer, 53, captioned an Instagram picture on Saturday, June 29, that showed him and Gutierrez wearing matching gold panther rings on their left ring fingers. “A great combination of @cartier & @viacarota #loveislove #pantherring.”

Harper’s announce garnered attention from many fans who shared their adequately wishes with the happy couple. “CONGRATULATIONS!!!! (And Via Carota is the flawless place to celebrate!),” Andy Cohen gushed.

Hair colorist Justin Anderson added with multiple heart and rainbow emo

The Biggest Loser's Bob Harper Comes Out as Gay to Arouse Contestant

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Bob Harper has encouraged a contestant on The Biggest Loser to do more than shed weight.

During Tuesday's episode of the show, the personal trainer came out as lgbtq+ to help blue team member Bobby Saleem, who revealed he was struggling to do so himself with his father.

"I haven't talked about my sexuality on this show ever, and now meeting Bobby, I really complete believe this is the right time," Harper said during the program. "I want to demonstrate Bobby that he doesn't possess to live in shame."

Harper then sat down with Saleem and shared his own story with him.

"I totally understand what you're talking about. I totally gain it — I'm gay. I knew a very long period ago that I was homosexual, and the family that I grew up around was very much the same in that way — you know, there was so much repression there," Harper said. "I think that when I came out, when I was 17 years elderly, it was one of those kind of things where I realized there were so many obstacles."

He added, "But being male lover doesn't mean being weak. Be