Luther vandross was he gay
Patti LaBelle opens up about why Luther Vandross never came out
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With a velvety voice that could provide you goosebumps by hitting just the right note, Luther Vandross is responsible for some of the sexiest songs in modern pop music history.
But the sad reality is that the tardy, great soul and R&B singer-songwriter spent much of his life alone, waiting to find that special someone, someone worth singing about.
Though warm and gregarious on stage, Vandross kept his intimate life very intimate. It wasn’t until after his untimely passing in 2005, at 54, that folks began to talk more pointedly about the rumors surrounding his sexuality: Was he gay?
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Then in 2017, Vandross’s companion Patti LaBelle known he was, indeed, gay, but chose to stay closeted out of be afraid of over how it could impact his career.
Her comments, in particular, sparked an outrage over “outing” someone against their will. Sure, Vandross had passed many years prior, but was it really Miss LaBelle’s place to address on something he was intentionally k
By George Johnson
The “closet.” A colorful group of words used to narrate the lives of people like me who were too afraid to dwell as a homosexual people publicly. The place where we brought all of our lovers to do sexual things in the shadowy. The place where we could sneak off to and party with our gay friends, only to return advocate to work, or school, or place, and pretend that we were “too busy with _______ to have moment for a girlfriend.”
The closet, for many of us, became our place of safety and a second home. Often, that closet door is a shield, and not always just for ourselves. Sometimes, it is a shield used to protect the ones you adore so much that you could never embarrass them by not being flawless in a nature that says lgbtq+ can never be.
On a recent episode ofWatch What Happens Live!, Andy Cohen casually asked Patti Labelle about Luther Vandross’ sexuality. The singer stated that Luther “did not want his mother to be [upset]–although she might contain known–he wasn’t going to come out and say this to the planet. He had a lot of lady fans. He told me that he just didn’t yearn to upset the world. It was hard for him.”
Many stood divided as to whether Patti was right to have said what
Luther Vandross, Gay Icon?
For most of his career, Luther Vandross chop a puzzling figure. A charming romantic whose songs were so celebrated for bringing men and women to the bedroom that he was considered as much aphrodisiac as artist, Vandross, by all accounts, spent much of his life alone. He was surrounded by friends, many of them famous, but Vandross was open about there being something—someone—missing from the center of it all. He never linked himself to a partner, even for show, which inevitably led to the kinds of … questions … often posed to a suspiciously unattached man.
In Luther: Never Too Much, an eye-opening new documentary on the late singer that recently premiered on CNN, archival footage shows interviewers pressing Vandross about his sexuality. He stridently refused to confirm or deny any rumors about his personal animation, saying that he owed fans only his talent and difficult work. However, when viewed from a certain perspective, the clip, from director Dawn Porter, steadily suggests that Vandross was the one thing he would never publicly admit to being: a fabulously gay man.
To be obvious, Porter follows the lead not just of Vandross himself but also that of several