Why are gay guys attracted to me
Can a gay bloke be attracted to a specific lady, but not women in general, and sti
I absolutely undertake think it workable for a male lover man to be attracted to a specific woman, but not women in general.
I am a heterosexual female and have been with my husband for almost ten years. As newly weds, I adv realized that my husband was homosexual. Initially I didn't mention anything, produce it didn't bother me, as we were very in love, happy and comfortable with one another. He was always effeminate and I felt that he could be himself with me and not cover his sexuality as he would in public. Then one day he came out and admitted to a male love he had in earlier years. He said he was tired of hiding who he really was. He didn't want to be afraid anymore. He didn't yearn to be scared of being judged or losing friends. He just felt he wanted to be true to himself. He was so afraid... terrified that I would leave him for coming out. So I told him, that even if he were male lover, even if we had come from different religious backgrounds, if he were black, white or yellow, or severly disfigured.... I loved him for his heart, his personality, his kindness. We make a amazing team, we include an excellent affair , we
Re: Pansexual ; Entity sexually attracted to gay guys
Unread postby Heather »
Honestly? I don't desire to hurt your feelings or construct you feel awful, but you're stereotyping here (and tokenizing a little bit, too): not all gay men observe the same way. Small, "soft" men come in every orientation, and there are also loads of gay men that don't watch anything like that. How gay men look is literally as diverse as how men of every other orientation do, you know? Too, if you're talking about men who present as femme, that's also something that isn't exclusive to male lover men. Bisexual and other queer men as well as straight men are also men who can and perform present as femme (they just often feel less supported in it and allowed to perform it, sadly, including by straight women).
I also notice you expressing what sounds like a desire to yourself be male, but since you tell you identify as a woman, it doesn't sound love this is about being potentially transitioned or nonbinary for you. However, I'd have to overhear more from you on all of this to acquire a better instinct of things. From the outside and only what you said here, it sounds to me like this might just be about you being attracted to your retain IDEA of
LastweekI took to my Facebook wall to repost this HuffPost article about 13 straight male German stars kissing for a GQ photo shoot to protest homophobia and intolerance. Some gay men posted and sent me messages stating that they found it erotic to watch two direct men kiss -- sometimes more so than watching two queer men kiss. Some said they found this as erotic as two women kissing might be to a straight guy. This got me wondering: Why are some gay men sexually turned on by straight men? Some even prefer straight men over gay men!
Before I get readers insisting that not all male lover men are attracted to linear men, let me say I know that. I know, too, that it's politically incorrect to admit that there are queer men who are attracted to and pursue straight men, thanks to the myth that we gay men will pursue anyone who's male, ignoring social norms and acceptable etiquette. Of course this is ridiculous. In proof, it's so ridiculous that I performed some stand-up comedy on the topic, which you can see here:
Because of the projection from many a threatened straight male -- that every gay guy is going to want to hit on him -- male lover men have silenced themselves on this topic
Why do gay guys keep hitting on me?
What's with the homosexual man trying to fuck the straight man? I mean, I understand the fantasy element to a degree, but the persistence almost makes me wanna beat some ass. Not in a sexual fashion, of course.
— Tired of It
Dear Homo,
I despise to break this to you, but gay guys don't hit on another guy unless they consider he's gay or bi. I'm thinking maybe your friends know something you don't.
Here's what happens when we gay guys meet a straight guy who turns us on: We try to receive to know him and figure out if he's closeted or bi without coming on to him. We're not overt for obvious reasons: 1) We might get the erroneous kind of pounding; 2) We might ruin our chances if he's a closet case who wigs out; and 3) We set ourselves up for an extremely awkward or humiliating experience if we're wrong about his orientation.
So, we look for certain signals during a conversation — does he hold eye contact longer than usual? Does he have a girlfriend or wife? Does he fetch up women? Is he giving off a sexual vibe? Does he feel personally interested in what you're saying? Does he seem interested, period? If we perceive him to be straight, we don't g