Gay gangbanger
When I first came to prison, I didn’t know how I should proceed. I was a gay man, convicted of a sex crime. We’ve all heard the horror stories. But I had one thing going for me: I was huge, weighing in at 310 pounds, a fair amount of which was muscle. For the most part, other inmates left me alone.
That is, until the other gays and trans found out about me. At the time, one of the gangs, which called themselves the Aryan Knights, used “beating up fags and chomos (child molesters)” as an initiation for new members. Fancy I said, they pretty much avoided me—preferring to move after the smaller and weaker. But that meant that a number of gay men and transgender women suddenly wanted to be my boyfriend (or girlfriend), not because they liked me in that way, but because they figured I’d safeguard them.
For a while, I went along with it. At one point I was the “boyfriend” of six diverse people at the same time. But I tired of being used, and wanted real companionship, so I eventually started hanging out with just one cute little guy who seemed to have genuine warmth for me. I was devastated when I saw him kissing someone else in the gym bathroom.
After that, I almost totally withdrew. T
There are many stereotypes of and assumptions about street gangs, just as there are many stereotypes and assumptions about gay men. Pretty much none of those stereotypes overlap.
In movies and television, some of the most recognizable gay characters have been portrayed as effeminate or weak; they’re “fashionistas” or “gay top friends.” Street gang members, on the other hand, are often depicted as hypermasculine, heterosexual and tough.
This obvious contradiction was one of the main reasons I was drawn to the subject of gay gang members.
For my book “The Gang’s All Queer,” I interviewed and spent time with 48 male lover or bisexual male gang members. All were between the ages of 18 and 28; the majority were men of color; and all lived in or near Columbus, Ohio, which has been referred to as a “Midwestern gay mecca.”
The exposure, which took place over the course of more than two years, allowed me to scout the tensions they felt between gang life and gay manhood.
Some of the gang members were in gangs made up of primarily gay, lesbian or bisexual people. Others were the only gay man (or one of a few) in an otherwise “straight” gang. Then there were what I call “hybrid” gan
The legal title gang bang stands for a particular form of collective sex. As a rule, a male lets himself be fucked and covered in sperm by several men. This is the biggest difference to group sex, because the men themselves perform not fuck each other. In very big gang bangs, there are also several men on site, but they are only ever fucked themselves. Of course a gangbang among gays is no problem, here a horny male lover boy is used as a compliant pleasure slave.
Private or commercial – two types of gang bangs
You dream of being part of a gang bang and getting fucked by several guys? Or maybe you want to be one of the studs yourself and feast on the horny fuck slaves. Whichever way you like it, the possibilities of discovery a gang bang are not so bad.
Commercial events get place in sex and swingers’ clubs, at porno sets or in brothels. Here you hold to register in advance and only a certain number of participants are allowed. At the porn set, the fucker is usually already chosen, it is a porn star. If you want to indulge in horny guys and cocks yourself, the swingers club is the improved option for you. Just check the website of a reputable club to see when another gang b Panfil, Vanessa R.. "3 Gay Gangs Becoming “Known”: Respect, Violence, and Chosen Family". The Gang's All Queer: The Lives of Gay Gang Members, Modern York, USA: New York University Press, 2017, pp. 73-107. https://doi.org/10.18574/nyu/9781479805457.003.0008 Panfil, V. (2017). 3 Gay Gangs Becoming “Known”: Respect, Aggression, and Chosen Family. In The Gang's All Queer: The Lives of Homosexual Gang Members (pp. 73-107). New York, USA: Unused York University Press. https://doi.org/10.18574/nyu/9781479805457.003.0008 Panfil, V. 2017. 3 Gay Gangs Becoming “Known”: Respect, Violence, and Chosen Family. The Gang's All Queer: The Lives of Gay Gang Members. Novel York, USA: New York University Press, pp. 73-107. https://doi.org/10.18574/nyu/9781479805457.003.0008 Panfil, Vanessa R.. "3 Gay Gangs Becoming “Known”: Respect, Violence, and Chosen Family" In The Gang's All Queer: The Lives of Gay Gang Members, 73-107. New York, USA: New York University Press, 2017. https://doi.org/10.18574/nyu/9781479805457.003.0008 Panfil V. 3 Gay Gangs Becoming “Known”: Respect, Abuse,